Women’s Circle Etiquette
While women’s circles are growing in popularity, many women still have yet to attend one. Most all of The Crystalline Collective’s gatherings will involve a circle in one form or another. If you’re contemplating a gathering with us and feeling hesitant by the newness of it all, stay put for some enlightening information about this primal practice we women NEED.
What is a Women’s Circle?
In cultures all over the world, women have been coming together to weave community, support one another, and even indulge in some gossip- they have done this for generations upon generations. The world has shifted in so many ways but our need to connect with other women has not changed. Now a days, we have girls nights out (and in), mama play groups, social media, brunch, pilates, and even the bar bathroom. These are wonderful ways to experience each other, but I must admit, there is an unmatchable energy and power that is created not only when women gather, but when women sit in circle with vulnerability, respect and trust.
I remember when I hosted my first women’s circle. I was terrified that it would be full of awkward silences, shallow conversations, and restless energy. But it was exactly the opposite. The women effotlessly connected, related and grew friendships that have still endured today. I have seen firsthand the impact of women sitting in a circle, face to face, grounded, and open. I’m hooked.
All you need you know
It can be intimidating to attend a gathering that you feel unfamiliar with and may not even know the other women in attendance. Remember that all women have shared experience in more than a few ways. The goal of a Crystalline circle is always to find that shared experience and relate to one another while supporting every woman in her own manifestation of that experience. You are here to radically accept each other and provide a safe space for gentle growth. AND it comes more easily than you think. Take a breath, and say yes!
When you’re preparing to come, wear something that makes you feel beautiful, but still comfortable- as there is almost always a portion of the event taking place on floor pillows. Before you arrive, do everything you can to fill your own cup so your vulnerability and presence can come with ease.
Once in circle, there will likely be a time to introduce yourself and hear from the other women as well. Throughout your time, there will be several opportunities to express your thoughts and feelings based on your own experiences one by one. As every individual shares, it’s very important that we do more listening than speaking, and more validating than questioning. We avoid overlapping in conversation as much as possible and give one another plenty of time to share. We are there to hold space for each other.
It’s worth it!
This has come naturally for many women and will come naturally to you as well. We have been gathering for centuries because we’re meant to! Whether you’re hosting a private event with The Crystalline Collective or attending one, I know you’ll love every moment.
